Want to do Something Worth Remembering? Tell Good Stories

There are two things my daughters ask for when I’m tucking them into bed: a prayer and a story. They don’t ask for an explanation of geometric proofs. They’ve yet to look up at me, their heads on their pillows, and inquire about the molecular structure of hydrogen dioxide.

Don’t get me wrong: they ask some zany questions. They want to know why. They want to know how. But at the heart of their question isn’t a desire for technical information: they want a story. Because somehow children innately understand that the pathway to truth is always paved with good stories.
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460 Rejections and a Muddy Hill

My hand is in the very bottom left corner. These are the guys that helped me up the hill. (Picture via Shar Halvorsen).

You can’t let what you are able to see put limits on what you believe is possible.

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Somewhere around mile four of the Tough Mudder was an innocent looking obstacle: a muddy hill. That’s it, just a steep slope, maybe twenty feet long, coated in mud. A few of the guys on our team struggled to the top and stood there, waiting for the rest of us. Then my turn came. I made a dash through the mud and started up the incline.

About halfway up, my feet started slipping out from under me. I stopped, dug in my heels and tried to grab on to something. Anything. But slowly, inevitably, I started sliding backwards. All the way back down. Continue reading “460 Rejections and a Muddy Hill”

What My Son Wants to be When He Grows Up

Each child at the Thanksgiving program stood from their seat and said what they wanted to be when they grew up. My children happened to go first.

Cade rose, a smile on his face, and proudly proclaimed: “Writer!”

Then Lucy, always a little bashful, always looking for that thin ray of acceptance: “Librarian.”

For the last few weeks, these have been the career choices. Not too long ago they were policeman and gardener. And before that something else. Continue reading “What My Son Wants to be When He Grows Up”

The Bible: Notes of Love, or Charges Made By a Disappointed Father?

A teenage girl walks into the bathroom and vomits quietly into the sink, tiny flecks of her barely existent lunch sticking to the mirror. When she looks into the glass, she sees a stranger. She sits on the toilet and puts her face in her hands.

Then she sees it – on the floor, written on a torn scrap of toilet paper, a note to her from someone who loves her. Continue reading “The Bible: Notes of Love, or Charges Made By a Disappointed Father?”